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combine sexual desire with gender variance and....

I really like Jack Molay's latest posting over at crossdreams

http://www.crossdreamers.com/2013/05/misfits-gender-swap.html?showComment=1367954550235#c5733321056872502512

He essentially encapsulates an idea that I have in a very long form and roundabout way been proposing. Namely that:

SEXUAL DESIRE + GENDER VARIANCE = CROSSDREAMING

I used to think that transsexuals never exhibited eroticism of any sort and that I must suffer from some sort of sexual deviation. If you were to believe Blanchard that might just be the case for disphorics like me.

However studies clearly show that both gender disphorics and pre transition transsexuals crossdream. So in a way its almost a universal theme.

Thanks for the great post Jack and kudos to British television for pushing the envelope once again.

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