Why destroy your male side when you can opt instead to amplify the female that resides within you?
I know this notion does not appeal to every person who is in any way gender variant but then we are all different with our own points of view and our own paths to follow.
Many native cultures have expressed this idea of a two spirited being and in some it has even been celebrated. They were called berdaches in North American native communities and were often shamans, artisans,crafts people or child rearers.
Needless to say we have a less favorable opinion of all this in our modern culture which is nevertheless changing ever so slowly.
Two halves of a whole is an interesting image and I will hold on to that image in absence of a better mental picture.