Graden (who is also sometimes Grace) lives openly in his native New Zealand in the way I wish I had been able to at his age with the aid of self acceptance and a world around me with more openness. I would never have imagined such a scenario being possible back then.
He describes himself as genderfluid/trans and expresses himself accordingly. Graden also has a supportive partner who may herself lean either way in orientation or is at least very understanding.
This young couple for me captures the type of openness that I see out there in the world today which is absolutely wonderful.
In this video they conduct a Q&A where some of the questions deal with the issue of his gender fluidity..