The real science as to what causes gender dysphoria still awaits.
Harry Benjamin was on to something except he didn’t have the scientific evidence to back up his suspicions hence, like a true scientist, he negated to draw conclusions. His hunch, based on treating so many patients over his lifetime, was that one is born with a predisposition to be gender dysphoric.
However, with inconclusive brain scans and no DNA marker (as of yet) we are left with believing the word of people who need help and only want to lead happy and productive lives.
The best we have been able to muster since Benjamin's death in 1986 was to amass statistics on who gets a boner imagining themselves as a woman which is in equal parts pathetic and disappointing. For this is not really science at all but is instead playing with interview data that doesn't point to anything definitive or conclusive. I have dealt with this problem at great length in my blog.
The whole thing started with Kurt Freund's obsession with the penis and it all went irrevocably downhill from there (no pun intended). If you don't know who that is look him up; you will find it very elucidating. But remember, in the end its not the findings that are suspect but the inferred conclusion in the form of an invented sexually-fueled mental illness called "Autogynephilia".
That being said, there is absolutely no doubt that gender dysphoria comes with an erotic component attached in heterosexuals and in some homosexuals. The real finding would be to understand the true nature of how dysphoria, at its highest levels, leads some of us to seek a gender role transition. For it makes absolutely no sense that this process is exclusively driven by sexual desire. Most of us know we are trans even before we know what sex is; we just couldn't verbalize this at the time.
Therefore suggesting that some of us base their decision to undergo a transition solely because we sometimes come in our panties is simultaneously not provable, simplistic and insulting and, if that were the only impetus for such a procedure, I might already be there. But then I am not stupid and neither are my readers.
What now reassures me is that with the advent of transgender people coming out of the woodwork we are ministering to their needs and with more intimate contact comes their humanization. When you meet someone who is transgender you get to meet a real person who is just like everyone else and wants the same things.
When I first began this blog in 2012 maybe 10 people read one of my postings; I didn't care then and still don't since I am not looking to be popular - it was my therapy. Today, bolstered by friends Jack Molay, Calie and Stana my most read postings now exceed 800 views.
Hence, I am going to make it part of my remaining life's work going forward to help drown in the bathtub what's left of the unique combination of malevolence and intellectual dishonesty that helped forge this poor excuse for science. If my writing has helped even one trans person feel better about themselves it's so worth it to me.
Your lovely and heart-felt emails keep me motivated. You have no idea.