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Well here is Alice Dreger comparing men who get off on wearing latex female masks with the transgender population which she she seems to suggest is mostly composed of Autogynephilic men. In this 2013 article from the Pacific Standard, she does her best to make sure that gynephilic gender dysphorics are lumped in with what was previously labeled transvestic fetishism. In essence she equates wearing a female mask for sexual kicks with a transgender woman having electrolysis or FFS which, according to her, is just a more elaborate version of the same mask.

Once again Autogynephilia is described here as sexual orientation which is odd since so many transgender people form real and long lasting relationships in which cross gender arousal (which is a byproduct of dysphoria) happens to co-exist. In my opinion this is not exactly the same thing as having a fetish.

Dreger is part of a persistent but very small group which is not picking up any new converts and here she uses old standby Anne Lawrence as one of her article references. Lawrence seems to have a history as a guilt ridden body modification fetishist which is why Blanchard's work struck a chord with her in the first place and possibly why she doesn't have a lot of friends in the transgender community.

The idea of gynephilic gender dysphoric as pervert never really took off which is also why we are finding less ludicrous stories such as this one. But like a good little soldier Alice Dreger does her best to convince other people that she understands something that neither she or the ever controversial Blanchard have any first hand knowledge of; namely gender dysphoria.

Never mind that we want to pass well in public and go through all the trouble of voice training, FFS or even GRS. According to these "experts" the entire endeavor is for the sole purpose of coming in our panties...

https://psmag.com/social-justice/fetish-orientation-case-men-wearing-female-masks-67924

(ILLUSTRATION: ALLIES INTERACTIVE/SHUTTERSTOCK)

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  1. Well, at least the article is four years old, and, it's largely an opportunity for Blanchard to air his prejudices. I wonder why his text is capitalized. Maybe he or Alice felt it gives his opinions more weight visually. Anyway we know it's all nonsense.

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  2. "Compelling first-person accounts of autogynephilia are available at the Autogynephilia Portal[.]"

    Ha! Yeah. And all first person accounts that defy this narrative may be dismissed as uncompelling.

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