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master of none

I really like Aziz Ansari's Master of None series for Netflix and, after just finishing watching season two, I like it even more. Its slice of life dramedy style really hits home for me.

Whether its the awkwardness of online dating, dealing with aging religious parents, coming out as a lesbian (as one of his best friend does) or trying to decide which career path he should stick with you feel for Dev as he tries to find his way through life; his pleasant and affable character seeming to smile through every situations he is put under.

This is the kind of show that doesn't seem to go anywhere and yet it does. It mines the little moments of life that we recognize as Dev's friends and family members deal with the little challenges we all face and need to maneuver around in our lives.

If you haven't already seen the show then you owe yourself the favor of seeing both seasons.



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  1. I will certainly check it out, thanks for your recommendation. I've been slowly - much slower than in previous seasons - watching the latest House of Cards. As much as their story line is a but prescient I'm growing weary of the whole thing. I need something new and Game of Thrones (dare I say it) never floated my boat.

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    1. I finished Homeland and House of Cards (both excellent) and then I jumped on this one next. If you haven't seen Homeland I strongly recommend it!

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