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Long Tall Sally

Long Tall Sally is a store that sells garments and shoes for taller women and I have ordered from them before online. They are located in Mississauga so I decided to pay them a visit in person. They carry women's shoes up to size 15 and believe it or not I was told some women actually need that size.

There I met a young woman who worked there who must have been 6'2" and was very secure about her height which you could see that by the way she carried herself. So I went up to her and said:

"I bet people stare at you at the mall don't they?"

To which she responded:

"Yep you too I bet right?"

"Yes but you seem to be very secure about it" I said

"They can look at me all they like" she said to which I added was a great attitude to have.

A few days later a lady came up from behind me and said:

"You're very tall. How tall are you?"

I fibbed just a tad and said:

"6 feet without heels"

"You keep yourself in good shape what is your secret?"

She was a little overweight and maybe a few years younger than me.

"Genetics I think but I don't buy ice cream or chocolate or chips since I live alone and I also walk a lot" was my reply which is all true

We then chatted for a couple of minutes before we went on our respective ways but not before being taught another lesson about ever fretting about my height again.




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  1. Thanks so much for your recommendation of Long Tall Sally! I'm only 5'9" but my feet are a 12-13 and of course my arms are a little long. This really helps.

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    1. we have the same women's shoe size my dear..

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