I am waiting for my coffee and suddenly there is a look of recognition and she smiles at me
“Oh, hi you go to the other Starbucks”
“Yes, how are you and what are you doing at this one?” I responded
“This one is 5 minutes away from where I live and no long bus ride anymore”
She hands me my coffee “have a wonderful day” and I say the same to her and miss the name on her badge although I make a mental note to ask her name the next time.
I have this funny feeling that she doesn’t know I am trans although I could be wrong but it doesn’t matter because the objective is not to point fingers at each other in recognition. We are more and more just part of the daily landscape of humanity.
I said in a previous post that her ability to be presenting this way (what I surmise to be mid transition) would have been a huge distraction when I was her age and yet people don’t even raise an eyebrow today.
Isn’t that great?