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  1. Too bad my physical growth stunted my emotional growth, or at least compromised it. Damn that dysphoria!

    BTW, I watched this while eating ice cream straight from the container. Is that from a drive for physical growth or a retreat from emotional growth?

    1. maybe physical growth in the wrong direction Connie??? :):)

  2. Wow! I had to watch this one twice. It brought to mind so many ideas. Only one seems relevant to our situation at the moment. We have to remember that while our drive to self-expression might take us on the road to transition, that cannot be the end to it. As I well know, there is life after.
    We must allow ourselves to be a work in progress along that path of emotional growth.

    1. Halle we are a constant work in progress and our emotional well being never stops developing which in turn impacts our self expression. I have found this to be true in my own life where my psychological liberation increase my ability to be myself.


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