It's interesting how that femininity matures over time. It is no longer like the teen girl experimenting but rather a more developed sense of self which avoids caricature at all costs. It takes time to develop this because our male indoctrination runs so completely counter and hence a clumsy stage must inevitably be passed through which genetic females experience much sooner. That is of course unless you have transitioned very young.
Today I have developed the life of a mature woman in her fifties who is comfortable with herself and knows who she is. She is also not a cartoon character.
This brings me great satisfaction.