Living mostly as a female has been eye opening and even therapeutic for my psyche. There is something natural about it and I am simply slipping into instincts I have had all my life but was afraid to fully access; instincts I now revel in.Women communicate differently and as I was sitting recently with my friend Patricia over coffee I found one such instance. It was hot and I had pulled a Spanish fan from my purse prompting the two other women next to us to comment what a great idea it was and how I was taking a page from Carmen. Suddenly the four of us were enjoying brief repartee that would not have occurred were four men present instead. It is hard to explain but it works for me much more than I had ever dared to admit to myself.
Are the same problems present in my life as before? Yes, however I simply feel more congruent.