Sometimes in life we feel compelled to let someone go who we love. We have made the decision with a heavy heart and it hurts like the devil but the realization that there will be issues down the road becomes an unavoidable reality. Part of the reason I am in my own is due to fear of repeating such a painful scenario but also because I have seen too much of how real life works.First thing we must do is get our house in order such that welcoming another person into our lives becomes an added bonus instead of a necessity. Once it becomes need we risk depending on it as crutch and potentially wading into troubled waters.
Couplehood is tough enough without the trans equation but it is made all the more so because of it. Therefore we must be open but not needy.