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Yes that's the name of the website that Chloe Prince created for us trans folk and keeps a lot of us coming back. It's a site that covers a lot of bases - blogs,personal pages, chat,advice, etc and to boot it welcomes all of us whether you are a closeted cd or a full fledged TS.

Chloe has been credited with saving a lot of people from despair through their ability to draw from the resources that you find there. Just this morning I was chatting with one of the more senior bloggers and newly transitioned woman. She is 54 years old and tried to fight off transition for as long as possible. In the end however it was stronger than she was and she succumbed to its power. She is happier and better for having done it and told me it was either a bullet or a dress. It makes me wonder where I'll be in 5 years and whether I will also end up where she is.

One thing she did mention is that there are bends in the road where you do not expect them. So I will just follow the road and see where it takes me.


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When it is complete I will post the news here and will be happy to send you a free copy upon request in either PDF or eBook format. All I ask is that you provide me with some feedback once you're done reading it.

I'm only in the early stages so it will be a while.

Be well all of you....

sample pages...