I suppose this is where I've always wanted to be with this: rid of the guilt and shame and able to celebrate it as part of MY normal. Even if society frowns upon this behavior, I can't allow it's judgement to strangle my free expression and natural inclination to be myself.
Gender outlaw? You bet!!
My friend called me tonight to see how I'm doing. We may hook up tomorrow if he's not doing something for thanksgiving. We've been friends for over 25 years and he's also divorced. Oldest of a big clan like myself so we have loads in common.