how times change

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How times have changed.

Whereas transition was something not to even contemplate for us, here is a young trans person who felt the opposite pressure. She looks and sounds extremely passable but decided it wasn't for her despite the social media presence of young transitioners potentially inspiring her to.

We are all different and I happen to think she's rather a smart cookie as well...


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  1. Julie16 October 2018 at 08:55

    Thank you so much for sharing this video. This is a question I have been dealing with for MANY years. This gal puts it so precise and clear - again, thank you for sharing.

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  2. Stu16 October 2018 at 11:57

    I like the video. I couldn't agree more I have been doing this for a number of years more than I want to count and struggled with it early on but like she said there are priorities and I don't want CDing to loss its thrill and going fulltime would do just that Thanks Sallee

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