Both are very sweet and in their mid to late twenties.
It has been very validating to be regarded as a woman by other women most especially by the younger ones. I do nothing special and yet they seem to like me. Perhaps it is the calm that comes with age that attracts them. In any event it has been a deeply humbling experience.
These days everything flows and there is no effort required. It is how I wish it could have always been from the outset.