Of your own making
I don't like groups. I don't know why I have such a natural aversion to them but perhaps it is because I don't like feeling like I am being herded somewhere and being a shy kid probably played into it. Groupthink is something I desperately avoid and if you are easily influenced perhaps seeking comfort within them isn't the best idea but I can certainly understand their allure for the extrovert. I think my cynicism developed by watching people since very young and witnessing hypocrisy and pretense first hand. Also like my father I have a low tolerance for stupidity. Hence I worked on my psyche and coped mostly on my own. Yes, you still struggle like everyone else but at least you are either victim or beneficiary of decisions purely of your own making.
That's exciting to see, though it's not super hard to arrange now, at least for those of us who are operating more in dual mode. I simply created an authorized user on one of my cards, as Joanne, to have as an option for shopping, etc.
ReplyDeleteThat's a great idea Joanne. I dont bother changing anything because I don't care but for those that do it's a wonderful option 😁
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