It is only my children who get a say in the process.
It feels very therapeutic to bring something like this up and not get severe backlash but then she's known about me for years now so it's hardly a surprise. Its helped that I brought her along in tiny baby steps.
Plus if I opt to go that route it will only be a social transition and not a medical one which will still give me flexibility on the presentation front.
My life hasn't been easy by any stretch of the imagination, but I still consider myself pretty damn fortunate.