We all make choices in life and Stana chose to respect her marriage vows while pushing the envelope of what is possible if one is a decent person who does their best within the context of our circumstances. She helped some out of the closet and others to be braver than they already were; all with sense of fashion and style which she didn’t apologize for (show us those great gams). She had her own unique flair.
Things have improved immeasurably since 2007 for the trans community and there is still more ground to make up, but I would like to think that she had a hand in pushing the battery limits in inspiring those who were petrified to step out of their personal confines and be themselves.
While I went to Crossdreamers for the science I went to Femulate for the jovial and the human side of being trans which is also so important.
Stana you will be missed.