la solennité

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Il y a une solennité dans tes mots, mais je ne suis pas toujours capable de les comprendre
Nous vivons tous les deux dans le même espace d'existence mais il y a une séparation
L'un pas tout à fait capable de lire a l'autre
La vie a un esprit vif et un sens de l'humour qui m'échappe parfois
Je reste donc tranquille et laisse la Terre s’ajuster autour de moi
En espérant qu'un jour je serai capable de me résoudre

- Joanna Santos

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