Learning to love

Learning to love is not always obvious and many of us struggle to do so while still living under the yolk of past hurts and failures. We are fragile and finicky beings who sometimes confuse love for a reciprocal game which hinges on each side holding up their side of a bargain. However, true love is not conditional and it can often overcome rejections which should have seen it extinguished. It is why sometimes breakups sting for years afterwards and a permanent scar remains.

There is no explaining the human animal to itself and we often marvel at our own actions with befuddled amusement. Because at the root we are emotional beings who sometimes succumb to rationality rather than the other way around.


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