Preconceived ideas don't work in our favor. Whether it is about other people or about ourselves, they set us up for disappointment when things don't work the way we thought. One of the big lessons of my life has been about not letting plans get in the way of living because you will oft be disappointed.

There is a better way which involves the souplesse of allowing us to be surprised by life and once we are close to getting our internal house in order we can let unpredictability be our friend rather than a nemesis.

Living one day a time with allowance for the unpredictable is what I am endeavoring to practice.


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