Whatever works

There is another Louise I know who I met on my morning walks and we sort of hit it off. After seeing each other sporadically on the path over a few months we decided to have coffee on a couple of occasions and so far it's been fun.

Louise, who is 2 years my senior, doesn't know I am trans but she fits into that category of person who I don't feel compelled to tell. If she's figured it out that's great but if she doesn't that works just as well. I know from the discussions that she has not.

Being in that situation used to concern me but it no longer does because I don't give it much weight. I am just being myself and the gender expression part of it need not be so important. We are both comfortable and that is all that counts.

Tomorrow morning is another such meeting and I look forward to the conversation.

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