No one has it altogether because we humans are simply too full of flaws and insecurities. Plus just when we think everything is working well, something comes along to detail us.
Being calm within the firestorm seems to be an asset but easier said than done especially if we have unresolved issues looming in the background. My recent good fortunes with coming out to more people have helped put me in a good place and I look forward to discovering more of myself without that added burden of secrecy. My daughter's almost matter of fact attitude has helped add even more perspective to something I Iong overdramatized.Life is a journey of growth through self discovery and as long as we keep questioning and examining ourselves we will find answers.