What is right for me
I am still getting used being seen as a woman by other women and I don't take that lightly. In fact I feel honored and my relationship with these different women which varies in closeness and frequency of overlap, has opened up a window into my own sense of self.
As someone who denied themselves femininity and only indulged it in spurts in the past, I nevertheless strive today to not be a caricature but rather have incorporated my male traits into my daily life as Joanna.Women are varied in character and also lie on their own spectrum between masculine and female and I have seen the same phenomenon played out within the trans community. Finding your own comfort zone is what it's all about which is why I don't worry about how I am being perceived.
It just has to feel right for me.
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