I have a simple trans related identity question for you to answer for yourself. If tomorrow you were suddenly completely transitioned by wave of a wand would be able to be happy and ready to adapt to that?

My answer would be yes but yours may be a different one. I am already there in spirit except for any physical transformation but I would have answered differently in the past. Today I know I would readily accept that change and my life would go on as it is. The point is that I no longer feel it is impprtant that it ever happen and I am good and at peace with it.

As trans people we need to chew things over and believe me when I say I've been doing it since I can remember. There is no right or wrong answer here just your own.


  1. To be honest, I just don't know and it isn't like I haven't asked the question. I solemnly believe that I would never choose to transition but if we lived in a magical world and it happened, I just don't know.

    1. It's difficult to answer a hypothetical which is why I chewed over this issue for so many years before deciding that a physical transition was not imperative for me. I do know for certain that were it imposed on me I would not be nearly as perturbed as a cisgender person. Being more towards the transsexual side of the spectrum necessitated I reflect quite a lot more than some.


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