Something to ponder

We need to be careful with fetishizing the feminine which is perhaps one way to understand ourselves. These young trans kids understand their identity far earlier than their conversion into sexual beings which is one way to identify them as trans; the point being that their identity precedes their sexualization with the difference today being that they can verbalize these feelings much sooner than we were able to.

Many transsexuals, in particular those who suppressed their feelings, had them tinged with sexual overtones into puberty but that is not necessarily the same thing as someone who simply enjoys wearing lingerie to bed or wearing tight fitting dresses and fishnets. Hence you need to understand where your gender variance is rooted and how it began in order to properly put it into perspective.


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