What suits us
Once you are at peace with being a self contained being, things can only improve. We are now free from the temptation of finding a partner simply for fear of being alone and you are open to the world more than ever before. Suddenly you are your own master and beholden to no one but still able to befriend and be present for people.This doesn't mean you need to like everyone or feel obligation. You simply need to wish others well and let them lead their lives in peace. For even our families are the people we grow up with but they aren't necessarily those who suit us best.